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Birthing from Within Birth Preparation Weekend

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Saturday 18th and Sunday 19th April 2015  In Glastonbury

I am so pleased to be once again running this popular workshop in Glastonbury with my partner Jady Mountjoy. Working with stories, art and practical techniques this 2 day workshop will prepare you for your journey to parenthood.

  • Prepare for birth as a Rite of Passage.
  • Understand the power and life-long impact that “birthing from within” offers all participants in birth.
  • Co-create holistic prenatal care that is informative, transformative, and builds a foundation for birthing in awareness in our birth culture, whatever the birth location or outcome or events of the birth.
  • Prevent or minimize emotionally difficult births (for parents and professionals) through compassionate, honest preparation.
  • Honour and use the power of Birth Story telling and listening.

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Held in studio of the innovative Red Brick Building, Morelands enterprise Park, Glastonbury, BA69FT directions here

The cost of our workshop is £70 per person or £130 per couple. There are concessions if unwaged. 

 

I first learnt about birthing from within when I bought Pam England’s book and was so impressed that I signed up to train as a birthing from with mentor.

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  • Childbirth is a profound rite of passage, not a medical event (even when medical care is part of the birth).
  • The essence of childbirth preparation is self-discovery, not assimilating obstetric information. The teacher (mentor) is “midwife” to the parents’ discovery process, not the expert from whom wisdom flows.
  • Childbirth preparation is a continually evolving process (for parents and teachers), not a static structure of techniques and knowledge.
  • Parents’ individual needs and differences help determine class content.
  • Active, creative self-expression is critical to childbirth preparation.
  • The purpose of childbirth preparation is to prepare mothers to give birth-in-awareness, not to achieve a specific birth outcome.
  • Pregnancy and birth outcome are influenced by a variety of factors, but can’t be controlled by planning.
  • In order to help parents mobilize their coping resources, it is critical for childbirth classes to acknowledge that unexpected, unwelcome events may happen during labour.
  • Parents deserve support for any birth option which might be right for them (whether it be drugs, caesarean, home birth, or bottle-feeding).
  • Pain is an inevitable part of childbirth, yet much can be done to ease suffering.
  • Pain-coping practices work best when integrated into daily life, rather than “dusted off” for labour.
  • Fathers and birth partners help best as birth guardians or loving partners, not as coaches; they also need support.
  • For parents, pregnancy, birth, and postpartum is a time of continuous learning and adjustment; holistic support and education should be available throughout that period.
  • Childbirth preparation is also parent preparation.

To book your place please contact me on 07939247462 or email joy@birthjoy.co.uk.

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Microbirth Premier film screening in Glastonbury

The Premier screening of Toni Harman’s new film will be shown globally on 20th September 2014.
Following the successful screening of her previous film “Freedom for Birth” last year, I am pleased to be able to share her new film in Glastonbury.

“Microbirth” is a new feature-length documentary looking at birth in a whole new way; through the lens of a microscope. Investigating the latest scientific research, the film reveals how we give birth impacts the lifelong health of our children and potentially could even affect the future of humanity.

View a trailer here: http://microbirth.com

Recent population studies have shown babies born by Caesarean have approximately a 20% increased risk of developing asthma, 20% increased risk of developing type 1 diabetes, a similar risk with obesity and slightly smaller increases in gastro-intestinal conditions like Crohn’s disease or celiac disease. All of these conditions are linked to the immune system.

“Microbirth” explores several possible plausible explanations. One hypothesis is that if normal vaginal birth is interfered with or bypassed completely because of Caesarean birth, this could alter the “seeding of the baby’s microbiome”, the critical transfer of bacteria from mother to baby at birth. Scientists suggest this could lead to the baby’s immune system not developing to its full potential. Another hypothesis is the actual process of vaginal birth, including the cocktail of hormones produced during labour, could profoundly affect the baby’s immune regulation and metabolism.

The film’s co-director Toni Harman says, “Caesarean Sections are essential and often are life-saving. However, up until now, no-one has really looked into the long-term impact. This emerging research is painting an alarming picture in terms of future health across populations. There may even be repercussions for the future of humanity. And yet, up until now, I don’t hear any alarm bells ringing.”

Join us on 20th September 2014

In Glastonbury Town Hall , Magdalene street, Glastonbury, BA6 9EL

From  7pm to 9pm for the film premier, followed by after film discussion.

Tickets £5. All proceeds will be donated to Towards tomorrow Together  Registered charity number 1151022.

Parking close by. Disabled access. Refreshments available.

Contact me for further details on 0799247462 or email joy@birthjoy.co.uk


Radical Midwifery on the Road

?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????According to the Association of Radical Midwives (ARM)  “In the mid 70s, the majority of pregnant women in UK had labour induced by artificial rupture of membranes (ARM) around the date they were “due”. These initials were used when the group needed a name, using the dictionary definition of “radical”, (roots, origins, basics, etc.) which aptly described the basic midwifery skills which they hoped to revive.”

In this spirit I offer a grass roots midwifery information service to women. I am an Independent Midwife, and as such I provide total midwifery care for women and their families, but the numbers I care for are small, and every woman needs good information. I’ve always served women by giving free information by telephone, and running a local ARM group, but again the numbers are limited, and so is my time. But I feel a huge need to pass on my knowledge of maternity rights and choices to women who may not even know that they have a choice.

Am I saying that the NHS is not giving women enough information or choice? No.

Am I saying women are unable to find out this information for themselves?  Certainly not.

Pregnant women just don’t know what they don’t know. First – time mums may, or may not have read widely, they may, or may not have a relationship with a known NHS midwife, and the midwife may be too short of time, experience or knowledge herself to be able to help each individual.  Without adequate information about choices in pregnancy the woman may feel she has no choice, and if things don’t go to plan, she may feel things were done to her without her fully informed consent. Feeling disempowered or not understanding why things were done to you in childbirth, can contribute to postnatal depression. After a poor experience women often look for further information and support to prevent the same happening in subsequent pregnancies.

2541987300_7cf0e2543a_mAs an Independent midwife many of my clients come seeking truly unbiased midwifery information, so they can feel empowered in their current pregnancy. Some have suffered previous birth trauma and wish to avoid similar happening again. But why wait until the second or subsequent pregnancy to get a positive birth experience? The first experience of birth is likely to be the most challenging, so it is important that we as midwives know how to serve you best. Unless you tell us what would help, or hinder you in labour, we will not know. Unless you know your rights and the choices available to you, you will not be able to instruct us in providing the right kind of care for you.

This is where writing birth preferences comes in useful. As an NHS midwife I would meet someone (often for the first time) in labour, and have to discuss all the pros and cons of different birth choices. I  don’t mind explaining at all, but Labour is not the right time to be engaging the thinking part of a woman’s brain!

  • Educate yourselves, know your rights and choices before labour starts.
  • Write your birth preferences down. Discuss them with your birth supporters before labour, and share them with your midwife when labour is underway.
  • If you don’t know why a course of treatment or an intervention is being suggested then please ask.
  • If you don’t understand or don’t like the answer then ask someone else.

The Association for the Improvement in Maternity Services (AIMS) are a great resource for anyone having difficulty getting support for their birth choices. AIMS have a booklet entitled “Am I Allowed?” and all over it’s cover it has the word YES. Nothing can be done to you without your informed consent. If it has not been explained to you fully, you cannot make an informed choice. Please buy this book if nothing else (order from website, under “publications”).

Read also Mary Cronk’s assertiveness phrases and practice them in front of a mirror.

Birth Rights is a new organisation founded by a human rights lawyer. The website contains useful fact sheets on rights in childbirth.

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If you live local to me then find out when I am next holding a midwifery clinic in my Birth Bus (campervan). I park at various locations locally, to give information and answer queries about rights and choices. Just text or email me for dates and venues. These do vary according to my midwifery caseload.

Remember that knowledge is power, and you don’t know what you don’t know- BUT you can always find out and ask WHY?

 

 

 

Mary Cronk’s Assertiveness Phrases

Following on from my “Am I Allowed post” I phoned my dear friend and former colleague Mary Cronk. As well as a good chat with each other, I obtained her permission to post her assertiveness phrases. She re-quoted the phrases that I know by heart, and have recommended to many women. I had the pleasure of working with Mary Cronk for 5 years as an Independent Midwife, and a further 2 as co-teacher of “Once More Unto The Breech” workshops. She is a true Midwife and has spent her life helping women achieve positive birth experiences.

joy and mary307710_251788671525311_932911360_nMary Cronk is an expert in breech birth who has shared the skills of breech birth with midwives and doctors across the United kingdom. She was awarded a MBE for her services to women.

See Mary in action here: Mary

You may find these phrases useful, particularly if told that you are “not allowed” to have your baby at home, or you “have to” be induced, etc.

“I am sure that many others will explain your absolute right to refuse any procedure for any or no reason. The law, and good practice is quite clear. A sensible person will listen carefully to any explanations to why a procedure is proposed, and then should she choose not to have XY or Z she just says no or no thank you. The “allowing” is done by YOU. An asssertive approach is worth cultivating. You may care to commit the following phrases to memory and practice them frequently in front of a mirror. Continue reading Mary Cronk’s Assertiveness Phrases